and most of these girls I see log on regularly for months and years on end...
like I read their profiles, try to act interesting, and maybe a few percent reply... that's just super mean. What the heck are they looking for? :/
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If you don't have really good pictures of yourself, get a friend's DSLR and take some action shots. Boring shots of you in your living room don't do much for most girls. When you send a girl a message, keep it short and tease her, don't bother reading her profile for every "interesting" detail. Every other guy is doing that and sending her the same messages.
Create a fake profile with a picture or two of an average, not really attractive woman. Watch the male responses and get an idea of what girls through the girl's mind when she reads all of them.
Read this article:
There are far more men online than women. You're best bet to get results is to start hitting on girls regularly offline. Many women, even the really fat ones have an entitlement mentality online.
Also, many girls are online strictly for ego boosts or have outrageously high standards which few men can meet and would rather stay single than date an average man.
Improve your flirting skills and take it offline would be my advice. Most of the best girls to be found are NOT online. The ones you DO want online, are swamped by all the other men messaging them like crazy. Put yourself in a position to win and you will win.0
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