The words come from my boyfriend's mouth would merely come true. I mean he always say "I try...I think.." but he never do that. I feel rather disappointed at him all the time and I start to get used to not giving hope on him. I don't want to blame on him all the time, Because it would make the relationship negative, should I try something else to make him realize how bad it is when you say sth but not doing it? or should I just talk to him again and again?
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This is one of things I left my ex for - breaking promises and saying things he never meant. He used to talk the talk, but would seldom walk the walk. At first, I used to believe him but soonafter I recognized that I was fooled by him and his mind game tricks he played on me.
Such guys know how to pick their preys. The run after girls who are naive, emotional and would believe their crap. They use their mind games to control us and of course we believe everything they say.
They always say how much they love us, how important we are to them, etc...but their actions say something else. You wouldn't feel like they REALLY care as they say they do. You wouldn't feel THAT important as they say we are.
Breaking promises will never end my dear. Telling lies will never end either. You better find yourself a better man. Don't be afraid to leave. It took me a while to man up and leave and I've never felt better. I was emotionally abused by him like you are being abused by your bf.
Now I have peace in my mind.
Hope this helps.0
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