Question is above ^
Girls are known to wait for guys to call. Does it go the other way around too? Or will a guy initiate calling all the time if he really was interested?
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yes we do wait. We might make the first couple of moves but after that we want to see what her interest level is. Plus we don't want to look clingy and obsessed.
Let me put it another way since women can't seem to grasp this concept. However, maybe there just using their gender role as a cop out. In any event, look at it this way. Let say you just met someone new, they might even be a girl. You think they are really cool and want to be friends with them. Nothing sexual or romantic, you just like hanging with them. As a result, you start to text and call them just to talk or to invite them to hang out. Not once does this person ever text you or invite you hang and sometimes blows off your plans or texts. How does that make you feel? Clearly it tells you this person isn't interested in being your friend otherwise they would also be calling you to hang out. The same concept applies to dating. A girl who doesn't reciprocate is basically telling the guy, I'm not interested, leave me alone.
Men are not robots who are programmed to hit on girls and will do so no matter what. We have brains and insecurities just like you do. If we don't get good vibes, we'll move on.2