I have been with a guy since Christmas. we were friends for a year before that and then he asked me out. we have been talking since then. His friends are throwing a Bday party for him ( not exactly on his Bday date). I will not be able to attend the party that day. I am expecting him to try to change the date if he cares for me to be there too. However, I will not tell him that this is what I expect because I think he should feel that he wants me to be there too. Am I being rational? How should I approach this?
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Hrmm...well, I woudlnt make a deal out of not changing the date.. Especially since its his friends throwing the bday party for him. I would either show up earlier in the day, or later that night if I really wanted to be there for some part of it. But don't take it personally..Im sure his friends didn't purposely plan to hold his bday on the day you can't be there...
The way my brain works though is...seeing how the party isn't exactly on his bday date..Id secretly be bouncy inside doing the "I get him all to myself on his day!" dance... and plan something special just from me to him on his actual bday...and really make it something special. ;)3