She told me that if we broke up she would want to remain friends and still text me. I told her that if we broke up I wouldn't want to be friends with her, I wouldn't want to text her, I would change my number, block her on Skype, and she would be my enemy. I told her this and she started crying why did this upset her she knows I won't be friends with any of exes her included (we aren't breaking up hopefully not).
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Girls love the idea of keeping a guy on standby, especially if he has feelings for her. It's like having a man behind glass - break in case of emergency.
As a friend, she would still get 90% of the relationship benefits with you. She'd have your company, you'd still do things for her, hang out, maybe eat together sometimes, and of course the big one... TALK.
When she says break up, she means "I'd like to eliminate kissing and everything sexual from our friendship". She doesn't actually mean break up, the way you do. It's like saying "I'd like to give 10% of my wages to charity"
And you're saying "F*** that. A break up is a break up. You dump me, you lose me. All of me. You don't get no 90% of me consolation prize bullsh*t"
And naturally, she doesn't like that option.2