I'm beginning to think that it's pointless for me to try anymore because every time I like a girl, they just always wants another guy over me, even those guys who don't have confidence, or act like jerks.
And it's like I'm damned if I do and damned if I don't because you have to show you're interested but you can't be too obvious otherwise it's unattractive. But if you're too subtle, they don't pick up on it. Please don't tell me that I need to find the "sweet spot" in between, and if you do, explain where it is. I can't even get to the part where you just get to hang out with her.
I don't NEED a girlfriend, but I when I like a girl, I would like to have a decent shot every once in a while. This bothers me so much because I feel like I don't count, I don't have a fair chance and any thing I have to give doesn't matter.
So, what now?
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I share what you're feeling.
Everytime I like a guy it seems they have a girlfriend, have someone on their mind or they just recently broke up with their exs.
Whilst I can be a good friend and listener by their side, I really feel quite upset about this whole thing. I start wondering what's wrong with me that I don't get what I want when I honestly think I'm a deserving woman.
Ahh wells, I can't really give you any advice on this, but would just like you to know that you're not the only one feeling that same way. =)1