Not to sound arrogant or over-confident or anything, but sometimes, I feel like I am. I know I'm a good guy. I'm not one to complain about girls going after jerks, but sometimes, when I hear people talk about the friend zone or when I see questions asking where all the good guys are and stuff like that, it worries me a little.
Does this make sense? Does anyone else feel this way?
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I've run into that problem. A few quotes...
"You've got it. On every level, you've got it."
"You're prince f---ing charming. Everyone likes you."
"It's easy to see you're quite a catch."
Yet I'm single most of the time. My friends don't know how I can be. I've even had a girl who is a friend who at one point after I broke up with my ex asked if that meant she had a shot. She said she would love to have a chance to date me. After a bit of thought, I decided maybe there could be something more than friendship there, so I said we could give us a chance. Her response? She isn't ready for a relationship. Why bring it up and ask for a shot if you're just going to turn around and say no afterward?2