So, I've been in a 2 year relationship, but my girlfriend is putting on a lot of weight, and becoming more hostile and pessimistic. But our relationship has been stable. Recently, I met someone who makes me a lot happier, is a lot more attractive physically and mentally, and we agree on more than 30 times the things than with my pissy girlfriend. This other girl is like a long lost soul-mate. Should I ditch my stable relationship for a better, more fulfilling, and perfect mate?
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Yes, you should not settle if the current relationship is not making you happy.
HOWEVER, the grass isn't always greener on the other side. Perhaps this girl us only showing you her best side. If things go downhill with her, keep in mind your current girlfriend may not take you back (she shouldn't, IMO).
If you're losing attraction, and hostility is rising for no reason (not counting for times you messed up and she has a legit reason to be angry, and vice versa with you), stability means nothing. Too many people settle, and it makes everyone involved unhappy.2