Or do you just not like the idea of being alone and you want someone there for you? I've been thinking about this quite a bit and I feel people nowadays, especially people my age want to be in a relationship, just to say their in one. I honestly don't think people value relationships as much as they used too. I think the word "love" has been thrown around a lot and think people are just infactuated with the idea of it. Do you live your life to find a partner or do you live it by chance, meaning if you do happen to meet someone, fine but if you don't that's cool too ?
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I don't like being alone, I am very extraverted and I like to be very close and very intimate with people. *Lots* of people. I really am even not much of a fan of privacy, with the right people. I don't date, though! I have lots of intimate friends, some of whom I do actually call lovers, but it ain't like that really. Some of my friends I sleep with, dine with, practically do have a relationship with, but both of us know we're just friends, and it is nothing like dating from the inside. I really, really like it that way.
Beforehand though, I was always looking to get into a relationship, but it was just because I am SO EASILY infatuated! I very often get it for girls in a big way and I used to be onto a different girl every few weeks in hot pursuit. Now that I don't date, it is much easier for me because I can sort of just let that infatuation come and go and enjoy it while it lasts, that suits me a lot. So, I used to really want to date, but now I don't date at all, ahaha.1