If a guy is too available as in anytime you need him or want him he always responds quickly and is hardly ever busy too you and gives you a ton of attention, is that a turn off?
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I think people in general tend to take advantage of things that are always readily available to them. In your opinion would you rather have a girl that does her own thing and is independent and you still can hang out with but lets you have your space or someone who is calling 24/7 and you know has nothing else to do so you just call when you feel like? I would hope the first choice but its the same with girls we want a little chase not someone who seems needy or gives up the goods too fast. The friction and the tension adds to fourplay and it's sexy to know a man can handle his own and not be around you 24/7 but still be there for you when you need him. He's not always in your space and gives you room to breathe but is there when you want him the most.0