I've been dating this guy for 3mos. In the beginning he would come over twice a week and was texting me all the time. than it become once a week. Now, I Haven't seen him for two weeks and he doesn't know when he will be able to come see me. He got a job a week ago, and has a son. which I understand. But is this normal? We both live at are parents house. I just feel like we don't really spend time together. It starting to feel like I'm in a long distance relationship.
Girls: Has this ever happen to you? What was the end result? How often do you see your guy?
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How much time people should spend together really depends on the situation and the relationship, but I could see how you would be concerned if you live in the same city and he used to have time for you, but now you haven't seen him in 2 weeks. He has other stuff going on, sure, but anyone who wants to spend time with you will make it happen. Have you ever taken the initiative to go see him? If he has feelings for you but is literally so busy he can't spare an extra moment for you, he would probably appreciate it if you took the stress of making plans off his plate and went to see him. On the other hand, if he's got other reasons for being distant lately, he'll probably make excuses why you guys can't see each other even if you're offering to come to him.
Don't ignore your gut feelings. If you feel like something's off and your situation isn't "normal," then it probably isn't.1