This guy I know has liked me for a few months now. I always genuinely enjoy his company and still do. I don't feel a spark of chemistry with him and I keep dodging the big "dating" question. I think he is a really sweet guy and lately I've started to wonder if perhaps there could be something more there if I give it a chance. Should I go for it? Or should I just not try?
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A first date is not really a big deal. It's just supposed to be casual, usually full of no romantic tension of any kind . It's just like a pre-screening to see if he's someone you will date for real. I say give him a chance, and then after the date let him know whether you'd like to see him again or say flat out that you are looking only to be friends.
It's a great thing to give him a chance, for both of you. However, if you turn out to not be interested, make sure you make it clear so he isn't confused or heartbroken.0