My brother is a player and there's this one girl who likes him a lot. He just takes advantage of that and gives her only physical attention. I was introduced to her and we gelled really well together. she then started calling me to meet her and kept calling me and messaging me. Her best friend is also a close friend of mine now and she said that this girl regrets not having met me before my brother and she thinks I'm more boyfriend material and that she is considering me. Feelings clicked after yesterday where we all went for dinner together, she and my bro were holding hands and cuddling in the car and today in the movie theater they were cuddling and sitting.I haven't told my brother anything. only yesterday I asked him why he doesn't date her when he's somewhat jealous that she has started to meet me often. He gave very mixed and confused answers(so it is possible he has some feelings, but he hasn't done anything in months). I was in a bad mood last night and today and she messaged me now and asked whether I was in a bad mood when I left the car.
What do I do I still haven't replied to the message...pls reply asap
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Do not interfere with your brothers relationship.
Stay within your boundaries.
If your brother wants to use girls or treat them badly, it really isn't your place to involve yourself by trying to "take" that girl away from him.
Sit down with your brother and tell him how you really feel about the girl. Perhaps he will be understanding , and give you the "go ahead". If he doesn't then look elsewhere.
There are plenty of girls out there, who aren't involved with your brother, who you can possibly develop feelings for.
Do not start dating her behind his back, that will only cause bad blood between you two.
Remember relationships with girls come and go, but family is always forever. If you do that you will can break your foundation of trust with him (and your relationship will never be the same). If you are willing to lose a brother just to gain a girl (who you will probably only date for a short time), then that is a bad decision.0