He refers to himself as my boyfriend and I know he is incredibly busy and focused on mixing his album (he's worked on this for 2 years and is working with seriously big names this IS his life) yet he said he's sorry but at least till 27th he "can't do any relationship stuff" so the woman in me flared up and asked point blank " Oh, so is that the brush off or postponement" he comes back with "neither Hun, let's have a chat soon" . I mean what is that? I still have had no contact for a week. I do love him very much and don't want to run so what do I do?
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It is a question of priorities. His priorities are focused on his work. Yours are focused on him. Don't let life pass you by. Accept that he may or may not "be there" for you in the future (new things will always crop up). Go about your own life. Develop your own interests. Find other people (including potential love interests) to occupy your time. If your relationship survives, and both of you have the time for each other, then it was meant to be. If not, you will not have wasted time and emotion pursuing someone who was never going to be there for you anyway. Good Luck!0