I met a guy at my college orientation and we hit it off so he asked to hang out and I said sure. We hung out the whole day and apparently he said (later on) it was a date. I didn't take it that way but he ended up asking me out again and I realized that hanging out to him was a date, which was fine. I'm starting college and am open to just dating guys. We've known each other almost a month, had gone out maybe 3 times and I just didn't like his personality all that much so I started to tone everything down to friends and stopped flirting and everything. He asked me later on what was going on so I told him that we're good friends and he was upset that we didn't end up in a relationship. I explained that since I was recently (5 months) out of a close relationship and all I want is to date. So he said that he wants a relationship (its been 4 years for him) and that I was leading him on. Was I?
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If you flirted, you led him on. Sorry, but ask any guy, and you'll get than answer.
Girls don't understand how our brains work.
So for all the girls out there--if you don't like a guy like that, STOP TALKING TO HIM! It's for his own good, trust me. I wish we could just be nice friends, but that's pretty hard.1
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