So here's the thing I'm an independent person, but I'm not a afraid to ask for help when I really need to.
I had a guy friend walking my dog for a week (because I was injured), I had another guy friend cooking for me, and small things like that.
Today I was with my friend in the line to buy ticket trains, and I didn't have any change a guy behind us was hearing our conversation and offer to give me coins to pay the ticket at first I refused but he insisted so much that I end up accepting. Well my friend than told me something like " Why are you always using your looks to get guys to do whatever you want, that's so messed up"
I was really offended because it's not like I seduce flirt with guys to get my way, I simply ask I don't force anything, and I'm not good looking enough to pull that off, besides lots of times the guys offer to help don't even ask.
I told her that some people are actually really nice and friendly and she laugh in my face.
What do you think do I take advantage of guys?
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First of all, without question, these guys are doing you these favors because they are attracted to you and are hoping for something in return: a phone number, a date, maybe even sex. When they don't get any of those things, they will FEEL taken advantage of. Some guys might just blow it off, but others will feel like you intentionally used them, and you'll develop a repuation for being a user eventually, and then guys will avoid you.
Even further, you help reinforce the perception that pretty girls use their looks to get stuff out of guys, so you aren't harming just your own reputation, but that of pretty girls everywhere.
Assuming these guys aren't long-time friends, you should assume (because it's almost always true) that if they're doing things for you, that they're expecting something in return, and that's always some form of "romantic attention."0