I met this guy and I know he likes me. I never judge a person but before I met him and got to know him a little he looked like someone that might be cocky and confident about himself. His profession is a counselor for children so I figured he has no problem initiating when it comes to dating. I was wrong. I have been initiating and I pulled a fast feather kiss on him one night. I guess we were both shy lol. Anyway, sometimes I think is he is not really interested in me but I don't know why because I know he is. We communicate almost every day. I have never dated a shy one before. Should I just keep initiating? He initiated text a couple of times and he is slowly warming up. I guess the kiss will happen when it happens and when or if it is supposed to happen. I like him lol
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I'm not shy when it comes to first kissing a girl. Actually, that's an incredible moment: two people coming physically together for the first time, you don't know how it's going to turn out/feel, your heart beats in your chest. A first kiss with a new person is a beautiful moment.
Now on to your specific issue. If this guy is shy or inexperienced with women, then you have to lead/ initiate for a while until he's comfortable enough to open up to you and be more relaxed. If he talks with you and spends time with you then he's interested in you. Just realize you may need to lead for a while and if that bothers you then find another guy. If not and he seems worth it, then keep at it.3