There is this girl that I have a special chemistry with. We talk a lot, we goof around and it is very satisfying to be around her. And lately I've been thinking about her more and more. I think I love her. But, one of these nights, I went out with my friends and got a bit drunk and I ended up hooking up with some random girl. Pretty stupid I know. Worst of all, some of my friends informed this girl about my behavior, and now she is truly upset with me. She is been avoiding me, she doesn't talk to me as often and when she does she does it in such a cold manner... She told me once that she really hates womanizer jerks, and now she probably thinks I am just another one. I feel really bad. What should I do?
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Were you two officially in a relationship?
If yes, I would agree with her.
If no, despite that it still probably should have been avoided, you're going to have to start from scratch. She may not be able to trust if you go out with friends and have that loom over her feelings because if you end up in a serious relationship trust is one of (if not the) biggest things.
Just talk to her. Tell her it was stupid and that you're glad she found out because you want to be honest with her. Tell her how you feel and ask her how to make it up to her. You may have to make a few sacrifices.
Communication is the only thing that will make it better and texting doesn't count. You need to talk face to face.0