Very rocky and long distance relationship. Lasted over a year and dude convinced me to get an apartment with him. Swore he loved me as Much as his kids and I was the greatest he ever knew. All the sudden he stops texting or calling and a few days later jumps in a new relationship with a girl in his town. Now he lives with her and they haven't even dated a month. I'm baffled. I wonder how he can do this and feel OK ? I wonder if I ever cross his mind because he is still all I think about
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Some times. Good, and bad. Isn't healthy though. Similar happened to me in one I had.. but I don't do that sh*t anymore. after 2 times it seemed pointless, and meant nothing anyways. Just a waste of time, good way to get ones hopes up. Trusting someone is harder in person, over the net.. even harder. Temptations everywhere, and knowing how hedonistic everyone is, I wouldn't put it past them to 'forget'. Then feel guilty and walk away and stop talking to the other person,and make up some lame ass excuse that makes no f'n sense. Words are words. They mean nothing.For all you know, he could've f***ed 20 chicks while 'with you'. Physical affairs and emotional are different in many ways. He has kids you say, and no wife? That's a red flag in itself.
I know the feeling all to well. You feel robbed of time. Like a parasite stole a year or more of your life,leached on your emotions for themselves and left you for dead without any care about you or consideration. It is what it is.Better to lose his number and forget about it. delete everything involving him,get rid of gifts, anything of that nature. If you want to talk, feel free to message me.1
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