I'm already fallen for this guy who shows interest with me but last night, I think its all done. He learned that I had a thing with a guy but that was before I met him. Its too crazy that these two guys met at a time last night. My attention was with this guy I am falling for and that made the other guy noticed. He got mad and jealous then he went home that morning leaving his work/reponsibilities at site. I am very guilty with it. He might get fired for sure because of abandonment of work.
Now, the other guy I'm fallen for also backed off and I feel that He's not already in to me. That kills me inside now that both of them are gone. So confused. Do I have to talk to him? or I'll just leave it and forget them both.? Grrr so crazy
Yass thanks for the well said advices:) I hope I can move on to this. I feel better now.
He got angry at me with what I did but in fact he's dating another girl!
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This is how butchered it is if I have Google translate it back: "If both men thought they were your girlfriend alone, and time with them at the same time, then you've got to move sa.Depende their race, they may be lost mukha.White guys do not matter as much, as protest until it happens to them muli.Kung Filipino, my experience is that they held together loob.Ako dated a Filipino friend crush once and we went from best friends to not I lahat.Subukan speech every now and then, but for over ten years, he did not answer the akin.Umaasa I say it well for us."
So, to clean it up and make sense and leave out my usual verbiage, with another edit thrown in for good measure:
***If both men thought you were their girlfriend at the same time, then you may need to accept that neither will want to date you now. Depending on their culture, they may feel embarrassed or dishonoured. White men do not care as much, at least until it happens to them. We may just blame the other guy, and fight him. Or we could simply let whoever wants the girl at this point to have her. In my experience Filipino men can be very conservative and want to keep a good reputation in their community. I dated a girl my Filipino friend liked once. He has never spoken to either of us again (at least not me). We were best friends, even room-mates. I deserved being treated like that. I failed to respect his culture. For that reason I try to be as kind as I can to all Filipinos.
I'd recommend getting the men's opinion in a week. If the one you want changes his mind and still likes you, everything is OK. If he is still ignoring you he was not worth it.
If you find out the old boyfriend is the most understanding and still wants you, give him a chance. Jealousy is normal with a beautiful woman. Make sure he is not always an angry man before you date him again.
This may just be a defining moment in your relationship. Whoever is the most understanding will get to keep you.***
I hope I'm easier to understand in English. I won't try translating into other languages again. Not until I find a better site or program.
Good luck and I hope this helps.
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