I feel like everyone I grew up around first got laid at 12 and drunk at 13. I've never been drunk -- buzzed a few times. That's all I have interest in. -- and never had a 'real' girlfriend or even kissed.
I also haven't been approached by a girl since third grade. Chick magnet, I know.
I don't think I'm great looking, so it's not intimidation, but I'm fairly certain I'm not unattractive, so I don't think it's that either. I shower daily, I brush my teeth, I'm told -- point blank and by laughs -- that I'm funny, even when I'm trying not to me.
Esplain this to me.
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Don't feel weird or bad that you never got drunk! Ending the night with your head above the toilet isn't a great way of finishing your night. Also finding pictures or hearing stories of what you did the other night without you remembering it isn't that fun as well. The only thing that could be fun on getting drunk is that some people don't really care about what others think of them and they'll start doing what they wanna do and be themselves or how they wanna be.
Other people start being annoying, rude and a pain in the ass.
The other thing, about your dating history. Some people are lucky that they found a good guy/girl that they match with and have a future with. But would you really wanna be dating the same person for your entire teenage years? I think that's not such a good idea. I'm not saying it's bad for everyone, but some people who did that start to think when they're around 22 that they've only been with one person, they never knew how the single life is, how other girls are, ... A lot of teenage romances end, but a lot of them work too, depends on the person. But I'm not a fan of teenage/liferomances.
Another thing about that, would you be more happier with none experience or with having a dating history that you dated someone, got together for a couple of months, turned out she was a bitch, single, back to dating a couple of months, broke up again, single, dating, single, ... you get the drift. When you never had your heart broken, you don't start a relationship with the though: well this might be another girl that leaves me and who makes me feel worse than when we started dating.
But all of this is just my opinion.
You're still young! Go out, have fun, meet people, enjoy it while you can!
When the right girl comes along, you'll have the confidence to talk to her. Maybe weird, maybe not, but I believe in fate. When it's meant to be, it'll happen.1