I'm 25 and I've never dated always been shy until I landed a job in retail I now feel more comfortable talking to people and girls...
I've never kissed a girl or done anything with a girl because of my insecurities...
so now I met this girl and we have gone out twice... she seems humble and fun to be with she always text me when I don't text her and it's her who initiates the dates and tells me we "should have lunch" or "take pictures together" before she left on vacation for 3 weeks to visit her parents she told me on the last date "i hope you don't forget me"
So at the end of the first date she got out of the car kinda fast and we said our goodbyes... on the 2nd date she kinda stalled in the car and since I got out of the car first she got out too and stalled outside and we hugged and I kissed her on the cheek and we said our goodbyes again...
After that I texted her saying "so I have taken you out twice on dates and I'm yet to find out if your a great kisser"
Her reply was "Well I don't know if I am or not.. that's something you will have to find out on your own Eventually"
Does that means she wants me to kiss her? after she left I told her not to forget me as well and her reply scared me a bit she said "I couldn't forget you, you are too sweet and nice"
i don't want to fall into the friend zone -_-; what should I do next time I see her in about 3 weeks?
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If she wasn't freaked out by the PDA you've already shown (i.e cheek kissing, hugging) then she isn't aiming to friend zone you. Unless she kisses and hugs all her guy friends :P
From her texts it does sound like she wants you to kiss her eventually. It means don't rush it.
When I friend zone guys I don't call them "sweet and nice", I say stuff like "You're awesome dude!" to establish a more casual relationship.
Don't over think it, it sounds like she's into you.
When you see her again hug her to break the touch barrier some more and tell her you've missed her. Remember that you are trying to establish yourself as more than a friend. Then offer to set up another date after you guys catch up. Yes, call it a date.
If you feel bold sometime during that date(or anytime) and a romantic mood comes up you can try to kiss her slowly. To accomplish this slowly get closer to her. Sit closer, angle your body toward her, and lean in gradually as you speak. When you feel like she's expecting you to do something you can either tilt your head and slowly move in(gives her a chance to accept or push you away) or ask her if you can kiss her first.0
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