I've been on a few dates with this guy...yesterday he informed me that he was hanging out with another girl, and he was suppost to be meeting another one very soon, just dosen't know when...and then when on to talk about how dating is about exploring your options with different people. .how would you feel about this?
Because personality, I don't think its fair in the least bit and I don't want to feel like I have competition when I just want to focus on the guy.
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While he's right that dating is about exploring other people, and in the very beginning I don't think there's anything wrong with what he's doing, I do think it's wrong to tell you the way he did. If you ask, of course he should be honest. But coming right out and saying he's dating lots of girls after a few dates with you is very rude. To me, it not only sounds like he's bragging, but it also sounds like he's trying to let you know where you stand (that he's not interested in getting serious). I also think there's a time limit on how long he can be dating multiple people without it being disrespectful or showing disinterest in you. After a few dates, he should be cutting down his options to you alone if he's very interested...not adding a new one in. If it were me, I would tell him I appreciate the honesty, but I don't think him and I are going to work out, and move on.
At this rate, considering you've been on a few dates AND he's adding a new girl, it won't go anywhere serious. You'll also lose his respect if you put up with it. Better to be the one who got away.1