I've noticed that I seem to only attract creepy and weird kinds of guys. I think I am fairly attractive, but the cute guys I'd want don't approach me, instead I have weirdos (for lack of a better word) who I am too polite to be mean to stalking me and seeking me out and I don't know what to do but avoid them.
Why do some of these guys think they have a chance? Even with repeated rejection of advances by me giving one word answers or moving on with my task, they don't stop. For example: At the gym they talk to me despite me putting my headphones back in and ignoring them. WHY?
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The problem here is you're not flatout rejecting them. What you're doing here, is ignoring the problem and hoping it will go away. That doesn't work. Some guys are just thick. However, if you actually just told them "Sorry, I'm not really interested." or "I don't feel the same way." or anything that flatout counts as REAL rejection, they'd actually stop. But you're not doing that. You're just avoiding and ignoring. Try the truth. It's not mean. Just reject them outright. Hints just don't work on guys. Be honest. Actually SAY to them that you're not interested. You'll get a lot more success. You might break a couple hearts, but they'll get it, and even more, they're more likely to move on and stop bothering you.
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