What to do when a girl says we need to slow things down and don't want to ruin what we already have. We were spending a lot of time together and everything felt so right, going with the flow. There are feelings on my side and think she has some to yet there are barriers also which I get.
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Speaking from her pov, go slow. When she says she wants things to slow down, it means she is uncomfortable. It could be that she has other priorities that she wants to set straight before getting serious, or it could simply be that she is uncomfortable with some kinds of physical contact. Try to judge things by her body language and if all else fails, sit down and ask her what it is that's making her want to slow down. It depends on your relationship, how long you've known each other, etc. Stick to fun dates, stress free dates such as bowling or movies, and allow her to take a little control as she's ready. Good luck!0