honestly which things would you see as a hindrance to dating any person?
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their expectations. I have high expectations of myself,on of me. have low expectations of others. I know they are not me, so I do not expect my expectations of myself have anything to do with other peoples expectations of me. I assume they have little expectations of me.
They end up with all these -imo- crazy expectations, & an extreme unwillingness, to be upfront. But reserve the right to get angry, when things don't go their way.
If everyone was direct it would be simple, but generally they are not.
In addition, they don't ask when they want to know something, they assume. I spend ten times as long correcting a misconception, then it would take to simply answer a freaking question.
So I don't date. I would rather just get to know someone over long enough time, that way, you just gradually, learn stuff instead of interrogating them,
That , or just touch & not talk. at all.1