Ok well I noticed this semester that this guy has been constantly staring at me. while I was at lunch by myself he came up and introduced himself. so we talked for a few minutes and then he asked for my number. we traded numbers. this was yesterday, and today he called me, asked what I was up to/ and if I was staying on campus for spring break. I told him I wasn't and he said to call/txt him over break. he also said something like hanging out when break was over. I feel like I'm a really naive person, I don't know if I should have given my number so quick because I don't know him or how he is. I found his myspace and saw his status as "swinger"...i don't know what to think...am I being too cautious?...please help
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Like Jarett said, it is hard without knowing him. However, while you were with him for that short period of time did he seem nice? Was there part of you that wanted to possibly go on a date with him? Probably yes because you gave out your number.
It is also a possibility that he just has a really big crush on you. The beginning of college, you start of knowing nobody. When you meet someone, or see someone you want to know better, sometimes you come across over eager to meet them or be around them.
bottom line: while we don't know his intentions, maybe you should go out on a first date with him. After getting to know him a little better, you should be able to discern a better decision on whether or you're too cautious...
P.S.~ my friend has his status as "swinger" too, and he is a complete goof ball and is very respectful towards women. I know my friend isn't your guy (at least I don't think he is :/), but some people are just funny that way.0