so me and my boyfriend have been together almost 7 years . I love him very much, we only broke up once and was for a short time less then a year ago. due to problems we just felt like we weren't in love anymore. well since we been back together he still has the my yearbook account where he talks to all theses girls..
i don't want to be a bi**h and tell him to stop. I want to him to stop because he knows how much it hurts me. I told him I don't like it. he just tells me he is making friends and what not. but I know he tells them that they are pretty
what makes me feel even worse is he doesn't go out of his way to say I'm pretty or anything I have to ask him how I look for him to say anything. but he will go out of his was to tell them they are pretty..
idk what to do .. I feel like I'm not enough for him or I'm doing something wrong.
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It's not that you're not enough for him, if I may assume, it just seems like he has something else in mind, a different ideal.
It's not wrong that those actions of his hurt you. I'm sure he doesn't understand how you feel and I'm sure he has no idea, no grasp of even getting close to understanding until you take a stand for it. Doesn't know what he has until it's gone - okay, not that far yet, but sometimes even after you take a stand, it takes awhile to sink in.
Now it might seem like a minor thing to take a stance on, because it would be like putting your whole relationship on it but if you think about it, it really seems like his priorities are elsewhere. They're on making friends, girls at that... right? He hears what you're saying as something he can have a rebuttal about. He's not taking in how you feel, he's not caring about whether he's hurting you in this instance... I really don't think you're his first priority judging from his response. And again, I know it's just about looks but I really think it stems deeper than that. His reaction is just as a symptom of something else.
Other than that, I don't know how he was towards you near the beginning or during the first few years. Did he tell you that you were pretty then? Does he think that he's said it enough? I don't know about you but if I like/love someone, I always see them as attractive, both in character and in looks and I will tell them no matter how long I've known them.0