I spent a year chasing her and she acted as if she was my girlfriend. I did everything but she didn't love me back. A month ago I told her my feelings but she said she only liked me as a friend and we stopped talking to each other. But yesterday somebody posted a picture of me at the beach and an hour later she sent me a message asking me how were my vacations going. I didn't answer, what should I do?
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Well speaking as a girl this has happened to it may not be that your fitness is the reason. It might of been about timing. Unless you know everything about her she might of been talking to someone else or liked someone else. Then it ended and when she saw your photo it jogged her memory. That's what happened to me, I didn't even see my friend as being interested in that way because I was crushing on someone else. Then when he told me it threw me for a loop so we drifted apart. Things ended with the other guy then as I was going through my phone I found his texts and realized he really did care and got back in touch.
And even yes we all hope to believe that people want us exactly how we are but maybe this girl wants a healthier guy, or a happier guy or whatever, people change for one another all the time, you shouldn't count her out completely. If you're worried about her just being fickle then talk to het and find out if she is or not. You obviously still have feelings or you wouldn't of asked this question0