Just broke up with my boyfriend in April, and he still wanted to be friends. But we never talk and he said that I should text him more often! He has a new girlfriend (one of my really good friends) and I'm super happy for them. But I miss talking to him, and she doesn't want me talking to him as often as I want; which is fine, because I know exactly what she means when she says she doesn't want another girl stealing him away. I just want to talk to him more often, but I don't want her to get mad at me because she is one of my bestest friends. What do I do?
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Now that seems usual for your friend to act like that. What happen to "maidens before knights" code towards women. She is suppose to understand that you and him were friends before, in a relationship after and back to friends again. If she cannot trust you and him being friends then she is not your friend. You need to slow your friendship with her and tell her your not a child who would steal another woman's boyfriend. After all you are not a snake. She is suppose to know your a trusting friend. Take no damage from her. She has dishonored your image by telling you that she does not "want another girl stealing him away" and your not just "another girl, " your her god damn friend, pardon my language.
This relates to my story. I had a "friend" who I helped get with a girl he likes and the dude totally ignored me as a friend and did not trust me to meet his new girlfriend or hang with her after I got them together. I am good with women and I would never steal my friends girl - goes to show he is not my friend but just a mutual guy instead of a friend. Good Luck