I've been in a relationship with this guy for about a week now and feel like I'm ready to have our first kiss. the problem is, he's quite shy. we do hold hands and say our "i love you's" but he quiet and keeps really romantic stuff mostly for notes and texts,etc. I'm thinking whether to wait until he's comfortable enough to initiate the first kiss himself, or go ahead and do it myself.
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I was JUST like that when I was in middle school, sadly- my relationship didn't end up well..so I commend you for trying to make it work.
I believe you should initiate the kiss, but at the same time make sure your patient, this guy sounds nervous, and that's what happens towards the shyness. He does have feelings for you and you two may be close but it takes a lot of time for him to be confident. If you make the first move it allows him to gain the confidence where he will SAY his romantic things and not just write/type it, and start to be more physical, like I said it does take patience because he may not immediately start to make this change. Hope this helps, ask if any further questions!1