This question is especially for shy guys. If you really love her but she wasn't happy due to lack of communications on your behalf mostly because you are anti social, would you break up with her so that she can find someone who can make her happy?
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To be perfectly honest, at this point I would blow her off, as soon as I heard the words "I am not happy." It isn't my job to make her or anyone else happy. Too often women put the burden of their happiness on a man's shoulders, and that is just unreasonable. The only person that can make you happy is you. Therefore, it is impossible for anyone else to "make you happy". It would be my job to make her feel loved, if I am not doing that, then I would listen.
If I were just anti social by nature, then there isn't much I could really do about it though. You can't expect someone to be something they were never meant to be, and it wouldn't be fair to ask that. If I were antisocial because I lacked confidence and experience around people, then I would need her support in learning better social skills. If she isn't willing to help me overcome such an issue, then it clearly isn't important enough for her to bring up in the first place.
I don't mind compromising, and learning new social skills, but I can not change who I am. Nor would I want to change who I am. I certainly wouldn't leave her because of that. That is, unless she is constantly going on, and on, about how unhappy I make her. I don't need to be around someone that makes me feel at fault all the time.0