I met a new guy about a month ago and things have been progressing into what I thought would be a committed relationship. However, he just started his first year of residency at a hospital and is very busy. He calls and texts me daily and I see him several times during the week and mostly all weekend. Our current label is "dating each other" and we pretty much act like bf/gf. He's introduced me to his roommate and close friends. What bothers me is that all his friends keep asking him if we're official and he keeps saying he's not ready to commit and he's told me as well. We did talk a few days ago about our status and he told me he wants things to move forward between us. I'm not sure how much longer I can keep our relationship this way. I don't want to pressure him but he can't have ALL the perks of being in a relationship without actually being in one. I'm thinking I should lay low for a few days and distance myself to see if he changes his mind about committing. Am I right or wrong in doing this?
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Don't give him any more perks of a relationship. Pull back from him and make him less of a priority. why should this guy take up so much of your time and energy if he isn't giving you what you want? Go out and meet other guys. He'll know what's up and he can either sh*t or get off the pot. If he wants to keep you then he should step up, if not then step aside for a man who wants the same thing as you. Don't let him get too comfortable and don't act like you're his girlfriend if you're not. he still should have to work for it. keep him on his toes0