OK there is this guy. He has a girlfriend. He's my sister in laws brother. He text's me once in a while, but he's been texting me a lot. He texted me this morning 'hey beautiful'. I told him to back off because he has a girlfriend. Then he texts me she's not his girlfriend, but last weekend he pretty much introduced her to his mom as his girlfriend. Everybody pretty much knows they are dating. He's at the club we go to every week with her and all of us. He's just been texting me a lot lately.
Why would he keep texting me things like this. Even though he has a 'girlfriend' Why would you guys do this? To get something from on the side? Is it the chase? I heard he likes to chase. I don't know if he's using me. I don't know what to think. Because I don't want to get hurt :/
Advice would be helpful.
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Well, not all guys are like that...because I'm not. I can however say, that I have been attracted to a girl that is unavailable, and I think it's the whole, "You cannot have this" thing...it's like a giant red shiny button that says, "Do not push"
There could be many reasons for his actions:
1) Things aren't going well with his current Girlfriend
2) He wants a 3 way (I don't know why guys think it's possible for this to happen, but it's not)
3) He gets an adrenaline kick doing something he's not supposed to. It's kind of like gambling, the type of rush...do I get caught kind of a thing0