Quite often I hear girls talking about wanting to find the perfect guy bt when you look at their boyfriends theyre the total opposite of what they "want". Not boasting or anything lots of girls hav told me that I'm the perfect guy, but that's my problem! what does this mean and why do girls do this?
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My boyfriend is so far outside my typical idea of what is appealing for a long term relationship that it isn't even funny. But I've been with him longer than anyone else, and I've been interested in him longer than anyone else.
I could go on and on about what I want in a person, but that doesn't change the fact that I like what I found anyway. Sure, tons of things nag at me when I get caught up in them, but I remind myself that all of that is insignificant compared to what I have that I value in this. It would be a different story if he was abusive, but even when we argue, he can't do a thing that I can't handle. He's just as manipulative as I can be, and if I really want to, I level the playing field to show him he's not the boss.
I don't have perfect, no, but I have a match. I have someone who can handle me, and that's more than good enough for me right now.0