This is a really f***ing stupid question. But I have to ask.
So let's say you're playing a game or something with a guy. Are you supposed to let him win? My mom said that if you beat him, he'll feel emasculated and his ego will like crash so he'll be pissed -_-.
But losing on purpose just sounds stupid..
So anyways, if you naturally suck at the game/thing/whatever, will he think it's cute or annoying. If you keep messing up and stuff and pretty much ruin the game.
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It depends on the guy, really. It does. Some guys might get upset if they lose, others might welcome the competition. But honestly, if he gets all huffy because you did well, it's your choice what to do, but I for one would tell him to grow a pair and suck it up. People lose. I honestly don't think you should have to throw a game just because of his stupid fragile little ego. As with your first question though, it also depends on the guy as to what he'd think about if you naturally suck at something. Still, all in all I think you should just give the game your all, no matter what. I don't care about someone else's ego. I don't think you should either. I say if he has a problem with you being good. Too bad. Better he takes you seriously than pander to his insecurities only to be treated with condescension. Just play. Do your best. Who cares?0
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