If a guy displays confidence when he is going to do something (and does it), is it attractive? The girl I like tells me I'm cocky and arrogant but in all seriousness, I'm just being confident and I never bite more than I can chew. If I make things look easy because I know how to do them, I don't think I'm being cocky. She keeps telling me "you like showing off, don't you?" but I'm not, I'm concentrating in doing what I have to and keeping calm. I noticed that she likes to stare at me when I'm doing something or talking confidently and she gets this big smile on her face and then starts making cracks at me but she seriously seems turned on and enjoying it.
So is "showing off" (as she puts it) a turn off?
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I think to a certain extent it can be really sexy. The guy I like is sort of like that too. What I recomend you do is every now and then mention something your not good at to make you a little more "down to earth" and its also sexy when a guy who can do a lot can't do something for a change. When you say what you can't do, make a joke about it. It shows confidence to admit something your bad at too, and girls love jokes lol. If your getting the smile and the eyes I think your alright :) good luck!0