How do you know 'this is it', I'll never want for anything or anyone more than this? Don't say "you just know" I want to know how...even though things are good with my boyfriend and I have a lot of what I want in a partner and in a relationship; How do I stay content with the fact that he's not everything I want, I'm very much in love and I want to be content for the rest of my life but he's not my "knight in shining armor" if you know what I mean.
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I had this boyfriend who was very affectionate to me, he made me his everything and he always made me clear he wanted to marry me, that I was the love of his life.. He treated me well and we were very much in love with each other. But nobody is perfect, he was very immature, clingy and jealous, and sometimes I wondered if I would really like to spent the rest of my life with him.. Then I met this other guy and there was a very special and strong connection the first time our eyes crossed.. A friend introduced us a few days later and even though his first impression was very odd we talked later and we just connected like with nobody else, and we are both shy and have trouble trusting people. I'm not saying he is better that my ex, but he is way more compatible with me.
It's all about knowing really well a person, compatibility and being comfortable enough to accept its mistakes and negative things, and of course, love.1