In general. Is it better to send a message to the guy/girl you've been talking to when they haven't messaged you lately? Or is it better to assume they don't want to talk and not message them?
I'm fairly certain the guy I've been talking to doesn't want to talk, but I still feel the need to message him. I sent him a text on Friday and he replied with "lol" and nothing else. So I assumed he didn't want to talk and so then I left it up to him to text me. But he hasn't messaged me since. So should I assume he is done with me, or should I send him another text?
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Don't play games or over-analyse.
If you think it's gotten to the stage where you are always initiating, and to initiate more debases yourself, then just leave him be.
If he's interested, he'll get in touch. If not, there's no point in forcing it. Base it on overall patterns of behavior though. Not just on one incident.3