i have been with my boyfriend for over two years now we have a little boy together and I just can't seem to trust him he says jess never cheated but wen I was pregnant he planned to go meet another girl he promised me he wouldn't go and he didn't but he has planned to do it again and when I asked him about it he said that he wasn't planning to actually go and also lately I found that he had been texting the person he was with before me I confronted him and he said he just wanted to talk to her! am I stupid for believing him I really want to trust him but can't we had the best relationship before this and want us to work what can I do?
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I'm going to say something really hurtful so decide now if you want to read further. I know that pain and want to give you a heads up.
If you want to read this then take a breath. He's probably already done it. If I was a betting person I would put a lot of money on the fact that he's already done it.
Love is an action word and we know it by someone's actions, never their words. When someone loves you they never confuse you like this guy is doing. You won't be able to fix this. It's time to quietly walk away.
After you take the time to grieve, focus on yourself and your son.
I'm tearing up thinking how much it hurts to do this, but you can do it.