by that I mean, initially you did something right and the girl was really attracted to you, you could have taken her to bed there and then, but because you were so clueless, inexperienced, scared etc. you end up doing nothing, not even first base, and later she lost interest, you got friend-zoned and she slept with someone else.
That's what I mean by "lost", has this happened to most guys?
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Yes I have I asked a girl to hang out outside but it started to rain. I knew no one was home and asked her to go to my place so we watched TV and she left and I heard 2 weeks later she tought I had other plans then hide for the rain
Sure I wasn't attracted to the girl so I didn't feel bad about it
Its not the only time this happened I even hung out with another girl and one day I recieved a call from a "friend" and we had fun that day, sadly I never saw both of them after that day
Now they are living together and got married just because I never asked the girl and he did .. I know what happened however, he drove past us and I didn't notice so he called me and I fell for it
But then again I learned from it nowadays I'm not letting things like this happen again0