So going back to my last question; It focuses on the idea that only jerks get girls... But then how do the nice guys get the girls as well? Because I know tons of nice guys with girlfriends and they were never jerks to begin with, I certainly did not get my girlfriend by being a jerk...
basically what I'm asking is, Can nice guys get the girl as well? You don't have to be a jerk to get the girl?
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They grow up.
And I don't just mean get a job and house and a paycheck. I don't mean that at all.
I mean mature, get a backbone, some self confidence, some self respect, and learn to give a girl what she needs, not what she wants, and to be the man he should be, not whatever she asks him for.
Most girls don't like nice boys, but they're pretty wild about good men.1