Instead of him paying 100%.
What would your reaction be?
How would it make you feel?
Would you go on a 2nd date?
Do you feel that you are an independent woman?
Most Helpful Girl
well, I don't mind paying for things. But, him looking at the bill and then looking at me and saying ""you pay half of it"" sounds a little too weird and formal. It is like me doing something for him and then asking him to do half of it. Just go with the flow. You don't have to ask each other to pay. It happens naturally. That's why I never ask my boyfriend to pay half of it. He pays for it sometimes and I pay for it sometimes. there is no bill war.
So, if a guy ASKS me to pay for it...it is our last date then.0