Why do girls choose players over the average good guy?

why do girls choose the good looking guy over the average guy who will respect them and treat them right instead they go for the cute guy who gets what he wants then leaves.


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Who says just because a man is good looking he will be a player? For that matter, why assume just because a guy is average he's going to be treating her right?

    But anyway, it comes down to hubris and attraction. Girls, fair enough, are going to be attracted to good-looking men, regardless if the man is a saint or player. When it comes to player, human hubris makes them feel they are too good a woman for a player to play her, but alas that is rarely the case, so players can continue to do what they want.

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What Guys Said 8

  • Because the players know how to get their attention, are good looking, and naturally are good at attracting women. Guys aren't the only ones that can be shallow about little things. This isn't a shot at women out there, it's just a fact that you can't choose who it is you're attracted to and successful players are obviously attractive to women.

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  • Because it's what women do and they also need to complain they can't find a good relationship. Rinse and repeat. That's women in a nutshell.

    As women get older they try to break the cycle. Do we want them after that? Not really.

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  • Cause all 3 parties involved are dumb. ANd when three dumb things exist in tandem then stupidity ensues...makes sense?

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  • Thats like asking why good looking women marry rich men. Because they can?

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  • 'Cause it's "fun" or a "challenge" or something.

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    ...yeah, I think it's bull**** too.

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  • Several reasons. Good looking guys, tend to have healthier genes than less attractive guys. So women are designed to like them. The attention these good looking guys get have given them more confidence, and that enables them to develop better social skills, which women are also attracted to. These are also the kinds of guys that get really spoiled on all that attention and become worthless people, but that doesn't stop your genes natural desire to find an attractive, confident, man that has good social skills.

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  • They want that charismatic guy at first.

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  • cause he is good looking lol

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What Girls Said 2

  • Not all cute guys just take what they want and leave. I've seen girls get screwed over by men all they way up and down the scale. Don't generalize.

    (But if it's you're asking that as a two answer question, the good looking one was chosen simply because they are good looking and the girl is probably shallow/insecure.)

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  • Humans innate drive is for attractive mates. That's why both males and females generally act stupid trying to pair with attractive people.

    That being said, plenty of plain men and women do fine in the dating world, once they adjust their mindset to overcome our natural inclinations.

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