The date was Nott going all that well anyway.. I don't smoke and he does.. we did not end up doing what we had originally planned.. and he wanted to have sex right off the bat.
So I went to check my text messages.. was looking to hear from a family member's text..(while gasping for air since the room was so smokey). there were 4 texts from other guys I've chatted with. I answered one and as I was walking up the stairs he noticed my phone beeping. I should have turned the thing off... but didn't. Is there ever a chance of recovery from this.. should I apologize? I ended up leaving... but I haven't heard from him since. I am really attracted to him!
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You said the date didn't go all that well anyway... are you SURE you are still attracted to him?
Anyway, you need to TALK to him. In person if possible, and if not, over the phone, NOT via text. Be completely honest with him (don't try to hide anything), and see how he feels. That's all you can really do, but honest communication can go a long way. You guys weren't communicating well, and that's your biggest problem.0