I have never seen this happen. For a girl who is usually very calm and cool headed, she sure got mad fast. We had an argument a few days ago, nothing major, but I was a little annoyed by some things she said. Today, I was still a bit ticked off but I wasn't mad at her, I just didn't want to talk because I can say jerky things when I'm annoyed at somebody, so I decided to keep my distance.
So I was being quiet for a while and then she asked me what was wrong and I told her. SHe got mad at me, and not a little mad, really mad! We are not dating or anything and she tells me I'm very annoying so I didn't really understand why she got upset at me. I tried talking afterward but she only got enraged further, is this common among women?
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She likes you and has been waiting for you to contact her. She's mad at you but also at herself for allowing the anticipation to build up.
Distance = Disinterest to a girl.
Distance after an argument = Breakup or something along those lines.
Guys like to shut down, cool off, and think. GIrls like to strike while the iron/frying pan is hot. REALLY FRIGGIN HOT. If you like her, you just have to get used to her Spartan argumentative style. Be strategically prepared for it.
Women who feel close/connected to you want to talk things through and expect you to understand that. Guys who feel close/connected to you want to back up, take a deep breath, cool off, and either let the argument pass or try to resolve it a different way. We're polar opposites in this communicative department and just have to acknowledge that about each other to prevent MAJOR blow-ups.
Call her in a day or two (don't drag it out) and see how she's doing. Do something cute/touching for her and watch her heart melt, even if she's still ticked off at you.
Sigh. Good luck.1