Guys and girls can input on this.
Frankly, I don't know about all of you reading this...
...but I don't EVER recall a female saying that "charm" in a guy's personality, is a negative trait to have, or a turn off to her.
Please vote below, reply as much as you like in your answer, and thanks for fueling my curiosity on this topic. 8-)
- Sometimes, a guy that has "charm" in his personality, is a negative trait or a turn-offVote A
- A guy that is "charming" is ALWAYS a plus to his personalityVote B
Most Helpful Girl
crookthings said it very well. There's endearing kind of charming, and then there's player/arrogant kind of charming. I know a guy of the second type. Basically, he KNOWS that he's cute, and that girls like him, so he uses that to his advantage. I fell for it myself, but I'm sure as with most of the girls he "charms", he wasn't actually interested in me. He just walks around with this immense sense of entitlement. He's a nice guy, there's no denying that, but he's just a little too charming/confident for his own good, you know? Or maybe not, haha, he's pretty popular with everyone. It irritates me though, the fact that everyone fawns over him all the time.1