So people had been seeing us together and they were wondering what we were. I thought..you know, were dating and its something normal to go out once in a while.. take things slow. But when they started mentioning to me that I should have the "what are we" talk, I took a risk and went for it.. mostly to see what he thought. I played it imo in a great way just saying hey have people been bugging you about what we are too or is it just me getting that? & well it went on him saying yes mostly his family, I told him it was the same for me and that it had started to come across as annoying from mine. & he stated yeah I just ignore it, that because one question leads to another.. which was very true. After a while we stopped texting, I told him Id let him go and we said bye and without even somewhat of an answer the conversation ended. But after I've been noticing he has been really distant, not texting me as much. I texted him twice since then (which I normally don't do but I was worried) "hey" and he does reply but its never much. We text for a while then he doesn't reply anymore. Last night I texted him and no reply at all. I mean can it really be done? just like that?
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I think when a guy is being distant, you back off a bit. Contacting harder will only push him away, so let him realize that he misses you.0