I don't so much have a question I think I more just want to get this out, and if you have any comments or advice that would be more than appreciated. I'm 24 my boyfriends 27 and we have been together for almost 4 years. The last couple of months have been quite rough. he's a christian so we don't really have sex depending on your definition I guess. We do all the stuff you would consider foreplay though. This is something that I've never really understood and always had a hard time with. But recently he doesn't even want to do anything physical which really gets me down, I think as women we need to feel wanted and desired and like our man can't keep his hands off us lol. ATM he will kiss me like he wants to but when we get into bed he won't make any moves, he's happy to watch TV or go to sleep. And I just get so frustrated and confused by him. The other thing is that I have made a new friend, a guy who I chat to a lot on FB. He has made it clear to me that he is interested in me and I have made it clear to him that I don't want anything more than a friendship. So I probably shouldn't be hanging out with this guy but he makes me feel so good about myself. He actually visited me last night and ended up staying over but we only cuddled although I knew he wanted more which made me feel good.
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You need to realize that not having sex with your boyfriend is not normal and it will, or has destroyed your relationship. You are already cheating on him and it will only get worse. You need to end your relationship with your Boyfriend before it gets worse, you will hate yourself for a very long time if you don't and in the end you will hurt him all that much more. Sex is not the whole relationship but it does play a very important part on how intimate you are with your partner, not to mention a actual physical need.0