im wondering how long girls have crushes for and if they go away or just get stronger over time? do you hide your feelings more as time goes on? there's a girl I think might like me for a long time and I have liked her too and we're both shy and weird and stuff... haha... at first I felt like she was definitely into me. over time it still shows but she hides it more than at first... just wondering if its possible she is crazy about me but doesn't let it show much or even makes it so it looks like she isn't interested sometimes...?
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Yes, it's very possible. There's a guy I've had a crush on since I was 10 years old. He's moved back and forth between Illinois and Oklahoma a few times, because his dad lives in one state, and his mom in the other. Even when he was still here, I never pursued him because we're just too different and I know it wouldn't work. He's never seen me as more than a friend, except for when we were kids and had crushes on each other for a little bit. Now he's back in Oklahoma with his on-and-off girlfriend, and they had a baby a few months back. He does drugs and has had issues with the law (these things aren't new), but I'm just about completely over him, because I know he was never good for me. But I'll always have that spot for him because he was one of the first serious crushes I had as a kid.0